LIFE AFTER THE WEDDING PARTY 🎉...

                            LIFE AFTER THE WEDDING PARTY
Hi everyone I feel very glad writing to you again. I hope you all found our past relationship article helpful in one or the other.

Below are some of my article you might have missed, Just click on it to read.

Cause of broken relationships. Episode l
Causes of broken relationships. Episode 2
Causes of broken relationships.Episode 3
Causes of broken relationships. Episode 4
Signs of relationships in bad Condition.... Episode 5
Poor communication in relationships.. Episode 6
Presence in relationships.... Episode 7

I got few responses from these articles which motivated me to write about the life after ‘THE WEDDING PARTY’

A wedding is a ceremony, an event. I define it as an occasion where a man and woman is been joined together. It is done in different style based on culture, belief and so on. The most popular types are

The traditional
Religion
Court
    These are the most practiced wedding in the world today. In this new age we face difficulty after wedding party because we mostly plan for the wedding party and no plans for life after the wedding. People plan their wedding differently based on some factors.

Financial factor: sometimes money determines how plans for wedding occur. It determines how fast the preparation will go, location, merriment etc.

Cultural factor: based on some cultural belief, rites are done before the wedding should occur. So there are some cultural belief that should be put in place before they can become couple.

Concentration is mostly on the bride’s gown, the visitors, foods, drinks, gifts, etc. all this planning involves time, money, stress is just for a day event. Now the question is “what and how have you planned to live after the party?” when it remain just the couple no friends, no family. I think when planning, the wedding party should be twenty- five percent and life after wedding seventy- five percent.

Some peoples ask “what is there to plan about?” briefly let’s discuss about things to be plan for life after the wedding.

Children: these are fruit of every marriage, they complete the word family. For every child you plan to bring to the earth there should be a plan for the child before his or her arrival. A child doesn’t know what dad and mom are in to they just want satisfaction. These are personal question I will like you to treat.

How many kids did you intend having?
How do I make provision (feeding, shelter, clothing, education etc.) for them?.
Does my income fit in for this? If yes fine but if no you have to start the plan all over again.
Children should be put into consideration; they should be taken care of because they are our hope for the future.

Finance: money is very important after wedding.
Consider this; you spent all your earning on a day event and think you will know how to survive with your spouse after the wedding party, that is not a good plan. Ask yourself this:

What if job doesn’t go on well?
How do you cope with the everyday inflation in the country?
What if she gets pregnant immediately after the wedding party?
How do you provide proper feeding, shelter, and clothing?

Money is a huge factor to be considered, financial problem can really affect relationships. When going into a marriage it is advisable couples should have backup aside their monthly income in case you might end up having bigger responsibility or loss of job.

Home Management: this is not just about cleaning the house, it is about the house, the kids, wife, in fact anything involve in the marriage. When people hear the word home management they say its women duty, it doesn’t mean the men are not involve but we all know we all have roles to play and women plays the bigger part of home management.

Question For The Women
How good is your cooking?
How good is your laundry?
How good are you at home cleaning?
What have you learned about caring for kids?
 How do you intend to live with your husband?
A lot of things are planned in home management; you really need to be sure you are up to the task.

Question For The Men
Are you ready to help the women in maintaining the home?
Are you prepared to carry the family responsibility?
How do you intend to live with your wife?
How do you intend to train your children?
All these 3 factors require a thorough planning and not just the wedding party should take all the concern.

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