CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS EPISODE 3

Thank you for joining me today for the 3^rd episode of CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP

This episode talks about GOING INTO THE RELATIONSHIP FOR THE WRONG REASON.

Going into a relationship for the wrong reason: Love is the key to getting together of a man and a woman but a lot of people take many other feelings for love. People go into relationship that ends up as marriage due to one purpose or the other so when things get wrong everything crashes.

Let consider this short story:

A guy met a young beautiful lady, they became close friends but he never had intention of taking the friendship to the next level. During the course of their friendship he discovered she is a virgin. 
This guy always had the dream of marrying a virgin, knowing she is a virgin he got into a relationship with her and ask for her hands in marriage.

Apart from been a virgin, she is beautiful, well mannered , she is going to be a very good housewife but he initially fell in love with her due to her virginity status.

On this fateful day the lady visited the guy and decided to spend the night with him. A bad night for her, the guy was robbed but just because he was unable to give the thieves what they wanted, rapping the girl was the alternative for the thieves. What a great loss, the virginity is gone. He lost interest in her just because what he wanted is gone. The relationship crashed.

1.     What if it happened a night before the wedding?

2.     Let agree the wedding wasn’t called off, what is the lady fate after the marriage?

3.     Will he still love her like he did before the virginity was taken?

4.     Won’t he still go out there searching for a Virgin?

Am glad you picked the point. Below are few wrong reasons why people go into a relationship

1.     A lady will tell her friends , the guy is handsome: don’t be fooled by that handsome look, it won’t guarantee you happiness or peace in the relationship

2.     The guy is rich: do you ask yourself, what if things get bad? What if the wealth vanishes suddenly?

3.     She has this sexy look: this is very common among guys, you hear a man giving excuse of “she wasn’t like this when we got married”. It is normal for a lady to have a change in their physical look after birth even if it is not all ladies. How do you know what you sexy lady will become? Have you considered that this change might occur before going into the relationship? Do you have plans controlling it rather than cheating when it happens?

Take note of this no matter what you are; the person who truly loves will not stop loving you. A lot of things are to be considered, you shouldn’t just go into a relationship for a reason. Let that love be true, let the feelings be natural.

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