Have you ever noticed pretence in a
relationship, am specific about now because it occur mostly in marriage. Couples
pretend to be doing fine while they are in worse term. Many relationships today
are in this state, instead going separate ways they decide to play along with each
other without love. They quarrel indoor and act as couple outdoor.
Do you ever
wonder why this occurs? Pretence in relationship occurs due to some reason. Let
treat them below:
FOR
CHILDREN: Pretence occurs in marriage sometime because of the children, if
those kids are not involved they probably would have gone separate ways. Things
like that causes distraction for kids making them lose focus in schools,
sometimes they are scared, they move about depressed. The couples don’t want
the kids to know about the conflict between them so they act well in the
presence of the child/children to prevent the children/child from the dangerous
effect it might cause for them.
All this are
wrong, your children shouldn’t be the reason you are still together because
there was love before the kids came in. it is important you love your spouse
and love your kids Settle all disputes
and keep no trace for anyone to see.
RELIGIOUS COMMITMENT: This is also a reason why people
pretend in relationship. It looks very funny to me, you claim to be a devoted Christian
in the church but you are devil in your relationship. If you are fooling a man
are you fooling God? Do you think God is happy with you? Yet you go to church,
teach people the way the of God, some even advice couples on their relationship,
some educate the young ones that are preparing to go into relationship but they
don’t practice any of this good things they teach.
We have seen
many instances of couple pretending to be in good term and they are not just
because of the post held in the church. So far you are committed to religion
you should live a life of relationship that fits in too which his loving
whosoever you have been joined to together as husband and wife. If you are
finding it difficult to maintain the relationship probably either the husband
or wife is stubborn , pray to God I believe he can store love back.
POLITICAL REASON: For no reason should politics be
the reason you are still in marriage.
The fear
that you opposition might use it against you? It is very wrong don’t forget to
maintain your relationship properly while you pursue your ambition or dream in
life.
I wish
everyone can open their heart to love and live a peaceful life in their relationship,
I hope you all learnt something for this episode and the previous episode. Thank
you for reading and have the best relationship you can. Remember to visit www.tblueinfo.blogspot.com for
more interesting articles and news.
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