CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP EPISODE 2

Thank you for joining me today for the 2^nd episode of CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, I appreciate everyone for sparing time out of your busy schedule to read this. Yesterday I discussed the point compatibility; I got questions and more ideas about Compatibility which I will discuss about at the concluding part of the article.

Today we are looking at CHEATING as one of the causes of broken relationship.

Cheating:  this means to act dishonestly or unfairly. Bringing this into relationship, cheating is the act of dishonestly or unfairly behavior in a relationship. It is very rampant nowadays every relationship is expose to one form of cheating or the other.  

When I say cheating many people talk about sex, that is a NO from me because cheating on your partner doesn’t have to do with sex only, it comes in different forms but the main point is that no matter the form in which cheating come, it does nothing good to a relationship.

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.         It kills affection between lovers

2   It kills trust- after cheating issue is been dealt with in a relationship it become difficult to build trust again. Have you ever experience it? The lady becomes suspicious of     her guys move; the guys also become suspicious of everything that happens around his lady.

3.     It creates bad influence in families where kids are growing. Some parents use the term “they are young”. That is true, that young is the reason why they see and apply what they have learnt from their parent as they grow up. Kids seeing their parent cheat, they believe that’s the way things are done, and of course they won’t ask you why you are doing that because they believe you can’t mislead them. Remember to every kid, their mom and dad’s knows best.

These are few effects of cheating among the numerous disastrous effect of cheating in the world today.

 As I have said earlier cheating isn’t about sex alone, below are other forms of cheating in relationship

1.     Denying being married or in a relationship: this happens a lot in the world today; some people don’t see this as cheating. But have you ever thought of their motive behind denying their relationship status.

2.     Becoming emotionally involved with someone else: Most cases this begins with a just friendship things until the he/she is find himself/ herself deeply connected to someone ( outsider)

3.     Flirting with others, all these are forms of cheating so we shouldn’t always think about sex only when the word cheating is been mentioned.

In a nutshell cheating can be described as betraying a partner expectation about the type of relationship you have with others.

I think many relationships can be saved from breaking if the guy and the lady, man and woman abstain from any form of cheating in their relationship, there is no small cheating, and remember a cheat is cheat.

Thank you for today, join me tomorrow for the next episode on CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP.