SIGNS OF RELATIONSHIP IN A BAD CONDITION..Episode 5

Dear readers I hope you found the article “causes of broken relationship” useful. Today we are discussing something different under this topic.

SIGNS OF RELATIONSHIP IN A BAD CONDITION

There are many signs that indicate a relationship is not in a good shape, if these signs are carefully observed and corrected there are chances of saving your relationship from hitting the rock.

Let discuss some points below:

Frequent argument: This is a sign I observe in relationship this days even in dating and proper marriage. Argument is the exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one. In simple word I define it as an oral disagreement.

In a relationship where there discussion results into nothing but argument, in such relationship they will always find it difficult to reach an agreement on issues. This results into both sides standing on his or her idea. I can assure you break up on its way into that relationship.

Causes of Argument

·        Difference in thinking ability: When one person in the relationship thinks far well than the other. This result sometimes into argument

·        The idea of “Am always right”: people should do away with this idea when in a relationship; you can’t be right always and remember no one is perfect.

·        Ignoring your partner opinion: no one feels happy when his /her idea is been ridiculed. Always appreciate your partner’s idea either right or wrong. After that you let he/she know why you can’t apply that idea to the situation

By avoiding these behaviors there is a chance of saving your relationship.

Fighting : Everyone is familiar with this point, because it occurs in almost every relationship. It amazes me when I hear issues of boyfriend and girlfriend engaging in physical fight, what could be their reason? I don’t care, if they can’t avoid that at early stage of relationship how would they handle things when they get deeper (marriage)? Sometimes that fight is a must but not the man physically abusing a woman or the woman disgracing, embarrassing a man, these takes relationship nowhere. Seriously even third party shouldn’t be involved, talk about it and let it go.

Fighting can occur in two ways in a relationship:

A fight that can end your relationship or fighting to make things right or probably to amend the problems in the relationship.

I advise instead of attacking your partner attitude , the reasonable couples/lover express their feelings about things even if it looks like a fight both sides understands the aim of the fight and solution comes up.

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