In the world today there millions of broken relationship cases that remains unsolved till date. Have you ever asked yourself why it is difficult to maintain a relationship after the stage of courtship where the guy and the lady get very close so as to know each other better? Have you asked yourself what went wrong? The world statistic records high rate of divorce cases every New Year although there are countries with higher rate of divorce than some countries but the fact still remains the rate of divorce cases increases always.
Let talk about things that destroys relationship in the world
today. There are a lot of things people see as unimportant things but are very
important in every relationship if they are carefully checked. Below are reasons
of some broken relationship in the world today.
Compatibility: Oxford dictionary define
Compatibility as a state in which two things are able to exist or occur
together without problems or conflict.
I see this as a topic that should be treated on its own when
lovers seek for counsel during courtship, compatibility issues in relationships
can be classified as a root problem because it is something that should be noted
earlier in every relationship. Let take
for an example you bought a Nokia phone and the screen got broken. You tried to
repair but didn’t get the hardware you needed. You found a screen that look similar
and you decided to use it. Luckily it worked but I can assure you the phone won’t
function properly like using it real component. Does this illustration tell you
anything? Just like the phone having different maker and components so are we humans, we re from different
background with different belief, different ways of life and so many
differences between a man and a woman that make us either compatible or incompatible.
Before relationship get deeper lovers differences should be checked to see if
they are compatible in terms of attitude,
communications etc. It is totally
wrong in the name of love trying to keep up or manage your partner’s attitude
when you are not comfortable with it. It is normal to talk about it probably
there might be a change but If you can’t talk things out then you let go
because you can’t put up with something you are not comfortable with forever. When
I say forever in a marriage, it is a law of marriage that is been violated everyday
by divorcing.
In some cases, the guy or the lady pretend to be what they
are not just to keep the relationship going, they start showing the real person
they are after marriage. This is totally wrong, what is the essence of hiding
who you are just to achieve something? What good is a relationship without joy?
What good is a relationship that knows no peace? If you are found of pretending
to achieve a goal I tell you it’s wrong to do that in a relationship because you
will someday add to the percentage of the divorce cases in the world.
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