LACK
OF COMMITMENT: Research has it that 85% of divorced
couples indicated that lack of commitment in the relationship led to it and I think
lack of attention is what I think results into lack of commitment.
COMMITMENT is said not
to be a single minded decision in a relationship with one partner issuing all
the rules and conformities, it is the mutual agreement of needs and requirement
in a future you want to share together, with high commitment level you present to
each other the strong ability to confide in each other.
Commitment is part of
every relationship which provides security and safety so couples can express their
thought and desires to each other. “Commitment in relationship means the
dedicated choice gives up other competing choices”. Lack of commitment in relationship exposes
relationship to great danger. When you are not committed to your relationship and
your spouse finds someone who he thinks he /she can confide in, breakup is
knocking on the door.
Below are the ways of
assuring deeper commitment in relationship.
1.
Couples should know the goal and purpose
of their marriage.
2.
Always appreciate any act of kindness
from your spouse either big or small.
3.
Be the best companion your spouse can
ever have. Assure him/her of you as a good confidant.
4.
Always talk about your relationship from the beginning , where you are and where
you are going
5.
Talk and stay connected about Hopes,
dreams and stress.
6.
Spend more time together.
7.
Share spiritual and religious activities
together.
8.
Greet each other physically and
personally every day.
Join
me tomorrow for another episode of CAUSES OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP. Thanks

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