Women were created to be Companions not Slaves

This is not a religious post but I will back some point up with the scripture and it is going to be a question and answer kind of post.

Men in the World today see the importance of having a woman in the home because they want a female in their home to do the chores, warm their bed and bear children. It is not bad having this idea but we exhibit the idea wrongly. 

Why?

Let check the book of Genesis 2 vs 18 Quoting from King James version "the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

God made Women for Men because he wanted us to have a helper not a slave. Giving man a companion was God intentions but it is so unfortunate that we have turn that  companionship into slavery. As men, we now see the need for women to do the cooking, do the laundry, clean the house, take care of the kids and other necessary chores. Deep down in me, even a maid shouldn't do so much as a job before earning a living. 

Despite women enduring the stress, many of us still fail to appreciate their efforts. Instead we choose to nag/ complain about how things are not done properly.

The funniest part is that many men use their work as excuse but women will do all these chores and still end up going to the market place to make some money so as to support the man financially. 

There is no law binding women to those chores but because of the respect given to men as the head of the family, they become submissive and will do everything to make sure the home is good for the family. 

Let me ask the men, how do you express your love?

 The sweet names and gift ain't enough. Doing the chores even tho not always makes women happy and feel very special. 

In addition, doing that isn't just for the woman but your male children will also see the need to do the same when they have their own spouse in future.

Children learn from their parents, they are watching every thing and they end believing it is the men's world, therefore the women are meant to serve them. Some even have the mindset that chores belongs to female only. And the parents help their idea by leaving the male children out when it comes to doing chores at home.

In a home where the children see both parents doing the chores together, the male kids will be eager to learn because they will see it as the right thing to do.

How would it feel on a weekend, you head to the market to get some food items. You get home and whisper into your wife ear romantically, baby I will be making the meals this weekend. So just go and relax with the kids while I prepare the food.

Nothing makes a woman feel very happy than making her feel very special.

Running the home is for both man and woman, there is something you can always help each other with in the home. She is not a robot, she gets tired as well. 

I had an experience when I was living with a family friend, I do lots of chores in the house and the father of the house will always use me as an example when scolding his children. I make meals despite having female daughters in the house, they sit with me helping with blending, dicing and others while I cook. It was always fun then, they are married today and would always want me to visit. Whenever we I visit, they don't stop talking about our time together. 

Doing the chores with them won't hurt, it would only make it fun while doing it. 

A guy once said what will people say when they hear or see him doing chores when his wife is there?.... Firstly you married your wife and not the people, so you should be concerned about her stress not the people. 

Secondly you don't know what those you are worried about do in their homes, maybe it is the husband who does most of the chores. You should be proud of yourself doing those things because that's what real men do. @BluefinStudios said "When I invite people over to my house, I cook. I cook 4 or 5 nights a week in my house. I also clean and do laundry.

Any real male should, too. Your wife is a partner, not a slave. Share all, and no one is tired. Share and make her your partner". Don't you want to be called a real male?? 

That mentality should be a thing of the past, we are made to help, care for and support each other.

Thanks for reading.

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